Author: Fatemeh Fakhraie

Founder of Muslimah Media Watch. Content marketing nerd who likes figuring out how stuff works and writing about it. I learned everything about being an adult from The Golden Girls.

The Murder of Aasiya Hassan

I’m updating all this week on what others in the Muslim community are putting forth about this at Muslimah Media Watch. My contributors and I will have a roundtable discussion on it next week.

I’m also part of a group advocating for swift action against domestic violence by spreading the word to imams, community members, etc. This Friday, we’re pushing to get all local imams to speak on domestic violence at Friday prayers.

May Allah guide us.

RD Blog: February 16, 2009

I caution against thinking that legal codes automatically equal problems solved for Muslim women on today’s RD Blog:

Balchin makes some great points about the fact that many family laws just aren’t cutting it for Muslim women around the globe. The statistics she gives are heartening, mentioning that several predominately Muslim countries are updating their family codes to reflect pushes for equality and fairness. But this assumes that it’s the laws that lag behind society, which just isn’t always true.

RD Blog: 1.30.09

Polygyny is in the news again, this time in Canada, where a defense lawyer says that allowing gay marriage will pave the way for allowing polygamy to be legalized. I try to look on the bright side of polygamy legalization:

Polygyny is often associated with the exploitation of women partly because its illegal status allows for abuses to go unreported. With legalization comes regulation: if we legalize and regulate polygamous marriage like we do other forms of marriage, those in polygamous marriages will no longer be in legal limbo.

Who’s afraid of the big, bad Muslim?

At The Devil’s Advocate, I talk about the astoundingly offensive statements made by a Portuguese cardinal warning Catholic women against Muslim men.

This is the most offensive utterance of interreligious hate I’ve heard since the Pope’s Orientalist insult to Muslims last year. Painting Muslim men as always foreign, brutally patriarchal, and “trouble” is a nicely-bundled mess of Islamophobia, xenophobia, racism, and sexism.